Life Lessons from a Farmer in VA

We were watching a Q&A session with Joel Salatin a few days ago on Youtube. If you aren’t familiar with Joel Salatin – he’s a farmer in Virginia. I mean, aside from being a vocal advocate for sustainable farming, the author of a dozen books, and the man featured in most of Michael Pollan’s work – he’s just a farmer in Virginia.

He operates a farm. He raises his own food. He teaches others to do the same. He is a farmer in Virginia.

And he is successful.

Now, try as I might, I have never read one of Joel’s books, though I do admire his style of farming. What I admire more though, is something that he said in his interview. He was talking about slippage – how things fall through the cracks on the farm when you can’t attend to them every day. Vegetables rot on the vine, calves are born and die without human intervention, and fields are left fallow. It’s very hard to be successful if you’re a casual farmer.

As I heard that, I thought – heck, it’s hard to be successful if you are a casual gardener! Weeds won’t wait. It doesn’t always rain when you want it to. Things go crazy all at once.


Just like life.

Now, you don’t have to be a farmer (or a gardener) to know just how true it is that things fall through the cracks if you can’t attend to them every day. I’m sure if you check those cracks right now, something fell through them this very day. Take my day – I started out with the good intention of working on a grant for one of my freelance clients and then taking a walk, but neither of those things happened. Phone calls, minor emergencies, a trip to the store, and spending way too much time figuring out lunch – now, that’s what didn’t fall though the cracks today.

It occurred to me as I was watching my day get away, that I may I need to organize my time better. But I know, that’s not true. Even the most organized person can’t do it all. It also occurred to me that I may need to put my own needs and interests aside to take care of more pressing concerns, but that’s not true either. In fact, the one sure thing I’ve learned from doing that in the past is that the “pressing concerns” only continue to press even more when you start putting them first. It even occurred to me to think that setting proper boundaries might help me get more done with my day. And maybe it would. But that’s not really the problem either.

Focus. That’s the real issue here. Since I left my job, I haven’t really had any. I’ve been trying to make sure we stay ahead of the curve financially, trying to spend more of my free time with family, trying to cram in all the things I always wanted to do but couldn’t because work took up my weekdays, and all the while trying to maintain the same balance we had before. As Joel Salatin might say, “Folks, this ain’t normal!”

If I were to really get down and think about it, I’m pretty sure I’ve been running around like a chicken with my head cut off these past few weeks and all because I haven’t quite settled into my new life yet. In fact, I’d go so far as to say that I might be a little afraid to settle in – like somewhere in the back of my mind, I still think this is just a temporary thing. Ah, fear…she’s not exactly the kind of creature one needs on a farm (or anywhere else really).

If I don’t work on anything income producing at all this week, we’re not going to go broke. I know that in my head, but the “fear of failure” is a very real thing. Which brings me back to the Q&A video with Joel.

In the early 1980s, Joel Salatin and his wife made what most people would have considered a crazy decision. They took their nest egg of $10,000 and quit work to farm full time. Their great big plan was to live so frugally that the money would last one full year. When asked if he was afraid of failing, Joel said something so profound, it will probably stick with me forever.

He said that back then he looked around him at the people who were hiring workers. All of them wanted one thing – someone who would show up, do an honest days work, and come back the next day. He thought – if that’s the bar they’re setting, I qualify for any job out there and folks would be happy to have me. With that mindset, he felt a sense of security. If he failed at farming, he would just get a job. Maybe not the best job out there, but with his work ethic, he knew he’d climb any ladder set in front of him, and climb it quickly.

If you don’t know the rest of the story, Joel and his wife made that $10,000 last two years, and by the third year, they were breaking even on the farm.

Joel Salatin is successful because stayed focused on what he wanted and not on fear.

I can’t tell you how many times over the past few years I got up in the morning and begrudgingly opened my computer to see what email greeted me, what task lay ahead, and what deadline was looming. And every day, I would tell myself that I was doing it all for a greater purpose. True or not, that’s how I made it through. I focused on what I wanted – a simple life, where I had the time to spend with family, the time to learn new things, the time to try new recipes, the time to work on things that gave me a sense of worth, and most importantly, the time to breathe. 

Nearly a month ago, I stepped off the career train onto the platform that was to be that simple life and in the days since, I’ll be honest – I’ve struggled a bit. It’s been like waking up on Christmas morning to a giant pile of new toys and not knowing which to play with first. And if you’ve ever been that kid (or the mom of that kid), you know how the scene unfolds – we try to play with everything all at once!

But we are human beings, all of us, and we cannot possible do everything that we think we want, need, or plan to do. At least not all at once, and sometimes not even in this lifetime. The best we can do is try, and cut ourselves some slack when we don’t meet our own expectations.

That’s my pep talk to myself this week. Slow down. Breathe. Trust the plan.

There’s great reward in patience.

Just ask a farmer.

Interested in watching the Q&A video? Here you go…

A Little Fun Along the Way

A lot of my recent posts have been about the logistics and the emotions of leaving my job. While those things are important, I want to let you know that we’re not just working our butts off. The whole point of leaving was to spend our time in pursuit of something besides just money. And so, last weekend, one day after quitting my job, we ran the Amazing Race (err…the Bledsoe Creek State Park Amazing Race, that is). And when I say ran, I mean it. Let’s be clear, I am not a runner, nor did I eat a big enough breakfast to sustain a 3-mile jaunt through the woods, but somehow, we managed to come in third out of the nine teams in the race.

The next day, we worked on our apartment garden. Instead of growing our sprouts in soil, we decided to do the wash, rinse, repeat method and set up two stations on the counter. (Spoiler alert: we harvested a nice assortment of microgreen sprouts and sunflower sprouts today and will be posting a detailed how-to guide on Friday if you want to grow your own.)

We’re also trying lettuces, kale, and spinach under grow lights in the laundry room. Success of failure there is yet to be determined but the grocery store celery stalk that I planted has come up, so there’s hope! I don’t think we’re going to be self-sufficient in our food production any time soon, but I do think we can keep our salad costs to a minimum this way.

The highlight of this week though was a 3-day adventure with our great niece. We visited an apple orchard on Thursday, where we all enjoyed our first-ever apple cider slushie and picked a peck of Granny Smith, Rome, and Jonagold apples. If you ever happen to be in Adams, TN (which is most famous for being the home of the Bell Witch), you have to stop by Shady Tree Farm and Orchard. The ladies there were so nice! They let Addison pay with her special debit card (which was really just my Parking Spot membership card) and treated her as if she were a VIP.

We spent some time at Nanny’s house, where Addison got to play in the dirt, replanting weeds from the yard in her “vegetable garden”.

And on Saturday, we went to the Fall Fest at Hendersonville Produce. Addison loved playing with all the outdoor toys and getting her face painted. She also loved the free samples.

As for us, we had a blast! I think this was the most relaxed visit we’ve had all year. No rushing around to do work or home chores before heading to my mom’s house for a quick visit. We just enjoyed the moment, as if it were all that mattered. Because, truthfully, it was.

On Sunday, Angie and I started off with the intention of relaxing and watching football all day. But the apples we bought kept calling to us and we spent most of the morning dreaming up delicious things to do with them. The end result, we watched about 20 minutes of the Titans game and spent the rest of the afternoon making an apple pie, apple butter, and apple juice for jelly later on.

The simple pleasures in life have always brought us great joy, yet much of this year, I’ve found myself just skimming the surface when it comes to true happiness. I knew I wasn’t happy at work, but I never realized just how much it was affecting the other parts of my life, until I left. It’s as if a huge weight lifted off me and I felt free again – free to live in the world of right here, right now; enjoying every little moment.

I’ve said it before but I can’t say it enough, life is too short to be unhappy with your job, your life, your direction, or anything else for that matter. If you’re not happy, do everything you can to try to fix it. If you can’t right now, don’t give up. The day will come when a door will open and all you need to do is be ready to step through it.