16 Things We No Longer Pay For

Frugality is always at the forefront of our daily life and finding ways to be more frugal has become somewhat of a hobby for us. From dumpster diving to making our own laundry soap, we’re likely to try all manner of things in the name of frugal living. Sometimes the goal is to save a buck or two, but more often than not, it’s for the sheer fun of it. We like to challenge ourselves to be more resourceful, to learn new skills, and find better ways to use what we already have. Our frugal efforts over the years have helped us to no longer pay for:

[Some] Personal Hygiene Items

We finally ran out of the all-natural deodorant that we scored for $1 a stick on clearance last year and had to go on the hunt for something new. Since the last time we purchased deodorant, it seems the market has become flooded with a lot more options, some costing more than $10 a stick. No, we don’t want to stink but we also want to eat and pay the rent. So we opted to make our own, using this recipe. And guess what? It works! We also started making our own mouthwash (with just water, baking soda, tea tree and peppermint oils). Yep, it works too.

Microsoft Office 365

Okay, this is going to sound silly, but, the one thing I was looking forward to most in leaving my job was not the freedom to do something on my own; it was being able to ditch Microsoft Office 365. For 7 years I’ve paid either an annual or a monthly subscription fee all because I was required to use Outlook. As soon as I quit, I switched to LibreOffice. It’s 100% free. Honestly, I can’t tell the difference between their software and Microsoft Office when it comes to word processing or spreadsheets. Google Docs is another good free option.

Amazon Prime

It’s not always feasible to shop local so on occasion, we do buy online, and often it’s from Amazon. But, after a couple of years of paying for Prime, we realized two things – first, we ordered stuff a lot more often just because we wanted to get our “money’s worth” out of the subscription and second, all that packaging just didn’t make us feel good about our environmental impact. We cancelled Prime in 2017 and have made only 6 “strategically planned” purchases since then. Yes, Prime offers other benefits, like videos and books, but for us it was not enough to justify paying $119 a year.

Giving Mom a trim at “Outdoor Clips”

Haircuts

More than six years ago, I ordered an $8 clipper set from Amazon – probably on Prime 🙂 – for the sole purpose of learning to cut our own hair. More inspired by the ineptitude of Great Clips than frugality, I watched a few YouTube videos and sat Angie down in front of the bathroom mirror for her first trim. I was terrified! As the years have gone by, we’ve both gained confidence. I’ve even given haircuts to other family members. At a cost of $30 every 6 weeks for the two of us, I estimate that we’ve saved nearly $1,600 so far.

Central Heat

Last year, we tried an experiment of not turning on the central heat unit in our apartment all winter. We used supplemental heat sources, specifically small room heaters. We saved $91.12 on our heating bill (over the previous year). This year, we’re going to do the same thing and maybe even toss a log in the fireplace every now and then.

Magazines

Fuss at me if you want but I still like to flip through the glossy pages of a magazine every now and then. I just don’t like to pay for them. Luckily, there are plenty of ways to get free magazines – the simplest being to go to the library or flip through your favorites at your local bookstore. If you prefer a paperless copy, go online. Many e-zines offer the same articles as the print version, for free. Often you can find offers for a free 1-year subscription to your favorite print magazines online. Free subscriptions are a marketing ploy to get you to purchase a paid subscription the following year, so if you do this, remember to cancel toward the end of your free period. To avoid clutter, I drop our old magazines in the lobby of the doctor’s office where patients can enjoy them while they wait.

Paper Napkins

We switched to cloth napkins about 4 years ago and have never looked back. I think we paid less than $5 for a set of 4 cloth napkins back then. They were on clearance, of course. The monetary savings is not that big (we save about $20 a year not using paper napkins) but the environmental impact is. Since most paper napkins are neither recyclable or compostable, switching to cloth greatly reduces the amount of waste we send to landfill.

Plastic Storage/Sandwich Bags

Almost 2 years ago, we ditched sandwich bags completely. At first, I thought we’d miss them but there really hasn’t been an occasion where we’ve reached for one and haven’t been able to find a suitable alternative. Even though we’ve cut back on purchasing packaged goods, we still end up with a lot of packaging every week – bread bags, produce bags, and more. Simply reusing these eliminates the need to ever purchase a storage or sandwich bag. For freezing, we have reusable freezer containers (yes, they are plastic but they were free). We also use glass jars. They do extremely well in the freezer, provided you leave a little head space.

Holiday Decor

No, we’re not Mrs. & Mrs. Scrooge. We do celebrate holidays and we do decorate our home. We just do it with someone else’s decorations. You’d probably (or maybe not) be surprised at the amount of holiday decor that gets tossed out, especially in the summer. Why? I have no clue! But I do know that all of our Christmas stockings, plastic Halloween pumpkins, and holiday lights were found in the trash.

New Clothes

The average American tosses out 81 pounds of clothing per year, most of which ends up in a landfill somewhere. Yes, people outgrow things or they wear out, but most clothing gets tossed simply because someone doesn’t like it anymore. I like to think we’re a stopgap in that problem. We shop garage sales and thrift stores to find all of our clothing. Sometimes we even find clothes in or near our dumpster. I honestly can’t remember the last time we purchased something new from the store to wear (besides socks and underwear). This sweatshirt I have on cost me 18 cents at a garage sale. And it’s just my style – warm!

Education

It took me FOREVER to pay off my undergrad loans and to this day, I can’t recall a single time when having a degree has helped me get a job, a promotion, or anything else. Not that it can’t for some folks, but for me, higher education has not paid off. On the other hand, I’ve learned a ton of stuff watching Youtube, reading books and blogs, and taking free classes online (on topics ranging from nutrition to permaculture). I can count the number of jobs that has landed me – two.

Dishwasher Rinse Agent

A bottle of Jet Dry will set you back nearly $4. We hand wash a lot of our dishes but since our apartment was upgraded to new appliances, we’ve been using the dishwasher on occasion. Yet, we’ve never put a single bottle of Jet Dry in it. Instead we mix 1 cup of hydrogen peroxide with 10-12 drops of orange or lemon essential oil and fill the rinse agent reservoir. We’ve never had a single spot on our dishes.

Dryer Sheets

A few yeas ago, I received a set of 3 wool dryer balls as a reward for completing an online survey. Though I was never really big on buying dryer sheets in the first place (due to all the chemicals in them), I did occasionally grab a box of unscented ones to keep the static down in the dryer. The dryer balls have been great as a replacement. One set is supposed to last for 1,000 uses. At 4 loads a week, that’s 250 weeks or almost 5 years. Another trick to reduce static, if you don’t have a dryer ball or are opposed to wool, is to use a balled up piece of aluminum foil in the dryer. According to my niece, it also works like a charm!

Excess Life Insurance

This one makes our parents cringe all the time. They believe that life insurance ranks right up their on the necessity chart with things like air, water, and toilet paper. We think otherwise. The purpose of life insurance is to cover debts when you are gone or to provide for your non-working spouse and children. If you are debt-free and have no children, it’s not necessary to leave a large sum of money behind. Angie and I each have a $10,000 term policy that we purchased for a few dollars a month when we were in our twenties. It’s just enough to offset the cost of a funeral.

Recreation Center Memberships

When we first moved to TN, we joined the rec center. We did it mostly to have access to the pool (something we took for granted living in Florida). What a huge waste of money! We went swimming only a handful of times and used the other amenities a sum total of zero times. When our lease was up in 2016, we moved to an apartment with a year-round pool. I can’t say that we’ve used it a whole lot but we don’t pay extra for it either. What we do use often is the great outdoors. With dozens of lakes and hundreds of miles of trails within an hour drive of us, why pay to play inside??

Movies

From Redbox promo codes and free trials of various apps to rewards through your favorite loyalty programs, there are just too many ways to watch movies for free these days to ever have to pay for one.

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We also don’t spend money on satellite/cable TV, to-go coffee, or bottled water and we’re getting really close when it comes to books, but all of these topics have been explored at length here and on other blogs so I won’t bore you with the details. Now it’s your turn. How has frugality helped your bottom line? What things do you no longer pay for?

Home(steading) Is Where The Heart Is

I’m not sure if apartment-steading is a word or not but I decided midway through putting a patch on a tiny pair of children’s undies (for the 2nd time in a week) that if it isn’t, it should be.

According to the great source of all knowledge (Wikipedia) homesteading is a lifestyle of self-sufficiency, characterized by subsistence agriculture, home preservation of food, and the small scale production of textiles, clothing, and craftwork for household use or sale”.

I’d say that sounds a bit like us. We are always striving for greater self-sufficiency. Home haircut, anyone??

Giving Mom a trim at “Outdoor Clips”

We grow and forage some of our own food (or source it from our friends with farms). We picked 38 pounds of peaches just this weekend.

We can and freeze food for winter. See…we even canned the peaches.

And craftwork -well, we did an abundance of that when our little visitor was here.

We just happen to do all these things from an apartment. So apartment-steading, that’s my new word for today.

Seriously though, Angie and I watched a video on Youtube a few days ago about a couple that had just bought a 5-acre homestead. In the video they talked about how they had practiced their homesteading skills for years before making the leap. As we sliced up 11 pounds of cucumbers to make pickles on Sunday, I couldn’t help but wonder, “Are we practicing for the day when we move to an actual piece of land? Is that what our future looks like?”

I don’t know. The thought of walking out the door and seeing a chicken instead of our annoying (and sometimes naked) neighbor does have it’s appeal. But so does not owing anyone, and right now, buying land would require debt. So we’re okay with the apartment and our efforts toward self-sustainability here, for now. Besides, we’re only limited by our imagination.

Why can’t we experiment with solar power from our patio? Or grow an entire garden from the trellis? Or start burning wood for heat? We have an actual fireplace for Pete’s sake!

Don’t have land either? What’s stopping you from honing your homesteading skills? Here are a few tips to get you started:

  • Learn to cook from scratch. This is probably the best home or apartment-steading skill you can add to your repertoire.
  • Grow something, even if it’s just an herb on the windowsill.
  • Join a community garden or find a friend or family member willing to let you put a small garden in their yard.
  • Make friends with your local farmers. Not only will you have access to fresh produce, you are likely to get better deals (and sometimes even freebies).
  • Learn how to can. Up until a few years ago, we didn’t know much about canning but I promise you, if we can can, you can too!)
  • Learn to sew. Even if you’re just patching a sock, that’s one less sock you have to replace.
  • Make your own cleaning and laundry supplies.
  • Practice fixing things on your own. You can always call the repairman if it doesn’t work out.
  • Barter with your friends or neighbors.

Are you an apartment-steader? Or an urban homesteader with a small yard? What homesteading skills do you practice?